Inner Bonding Daily Inspirations
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Start each day with an inspiring message that opens your heart to new learning about loving yourself, enabling you to share your love with others. These daily inspirations inspire inner peace, creativity, and the manifestation of your dreams.
The Inner Bonding Daily Inspirations take you within, helping you release old beliefs that limit you. Their profound simplicity goes right to your heart, opening you to receiving the spiritual guidance that is always available to you.
You will find deep emotional, spiritual, and relationship healing as you travel the path of learning and growing through these inspirations.
We cannot get to know each other just through talking. We get to know each other deeply through being - laughing, crying, playing, loving, fighting, making up. Words are easy - anyone can say anything about themselves. But we cannot hide our intent in our real interactions. We cannot know someone's heart through words alone.
True compassion starts with oneself. If you extend compassion to others before giving it to yourself, you are giving from an empty place and your compassion may be manipulative. But if you give it to yourself and then extend it to others, you are giving from a full place within. Then your compassion is truly loving and healing, because you don’t need anything back.
Attend to the difference between love and approval. Approval comes and goes, while love is constant. We can manipulate approval by doing things "right" but love from others is always a free gift that is beyond our control. We convince ourselves that we can have control over getting love, but are you sure this is true?
How often do you argue, defend, explain, threaten, attack or blame rather than feel the authentic heartache of another's unloving behavior? This week, practice attending to your heartache with deep compassion rather than avoiding this feeling with controlling behavior.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a relationship expert, best-selling author, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette, and featured on Oprah, and of the unique and popular website http://www.innerbonding.com. She has counseled individuals and couples, and led groups, classes, and workshops for the last 44 years, and continues to work with clients from all over the world on the phone and Skype. She is the author/co-author of eight books, including the internationally best-selling Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?, Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Her books have been translated into ten languages: German, Italian, Danish, French, Spanish, Portuguese, Chinese, Japanese, Dutch and Hungarian. Healing Your Aloneness and The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook are bestsellers in Germany.
In 2010, Margaret co-completed a 12 year project called SelfQuest®, which is a transformational self-healing/conflict resolution computer program. SelfQuest is a powerful tool for emotional healing, spiritual growth, healing relationship issues and developing personal responsibility in life and work. SelfQuest® is being offered to prisons and schools and sold to individuals, families and businesses – http://selfquest.com.
Margaret is passionate about teaching the Inner Bonding process and administering her popular website, which has a thriving and compassionate membership community.
Margaret lives in Colorado. She has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to play with her grandchildren, paint, read, make pottery and ride her horse.